One of the strengths of Churchie Rugby is seeing Old Boys return to coach and give back to the programme that helped shape them. They bring their experience and an understanding of the impact a coach can have on young players.

Old Boy Tom Hatzifotis (2025) reflects on why he returned to coach, what he has enjoyed and what he has learnt along the way.

Having been at Churchie since Prep, the school has been a huge part of my life, so coming back to coach felt like a great opportunity to give back to a community that has given so much to me. Rugby has also been a massive part of my life for as long as I can remember, and I’ve loved being able to pass on that love for the game, as well as some of the lessons I’ve learnt through it.

I think rugby teaches you much more than just the game. Discipline, never giving up, putting in that extra 1% and giving everything a shot are lessons that carry into everyday life. I had coaches growing up who had a lasting impact on me, and I try to reflect some of those qualities in the way I coach.

“The most rewarding part has been seeing the boys grow as both players and people.”

At the start of the year there were a few divides between friendship groups, but now we’re a really close-knit group. Even with fitness, something they used to dread, they now just rip in and get it done. Seeing their attitude and work ethic improve has been great.

The biggest challenge has been finding the balance between having fun and actually learning and improving. At 13, keeping them
focused can definitely be tricky! Knowing some of the boys from school has helped me connect with them, but finding the line between being their mate and being their coach can be difficult. I try to do the drills and punishments with them because I remember how much more respect you had for a coach who was willing to do it alongside you.

Coming back hasn’t changed how I see Churchie too much, but it has definitely made me appreciate the coaches I had growing up and the impact they can have, which is something I hope to have on these boys too.